Are you a risk taker? Recently we talked about taking risks and how the results of doing so are unpredictable.
I’m thankful I took a risk to reach out to my new friend, Bobbie. She is such a warm and kind encourager. It is a treat to host her today as she dives into the depths of grace and uplifts our hearts.
What Grace Looks Like
By Bobbie Schaeperkoetter
My word for this year was GRACE. I decided that this year I would shift my focus and really seek out examples of God’s abundant grace in my life. I know that He is so so so good to me and I also know that when my gaze isn’t trained on seeing His grace, it sees other things instead.
When I’m not seeking out grace, my gaze may shift to look at my problems, the trials I’m facing, or the distractions of a busy life. Since I don’t want to miss His grace, this year I’m hunting it down in the everyday moments of my life.
This year’s grace seeking has taught me something that I guess I knew deep down in my heart, but, somehow in the midst of a crazy life, have forgotten.
Can I define grace for you? It sounds a little silly to share a definition for a word that is so common, but the definition of grace is just beautiful to me.
Dictionary.com has my favorite definition of grace. They define grace as “the freely given, unmerited favor and love of God. The influence or spirit of God operating in humans to regenerate or strengthen them. A virtue of excellence of divine origin. Also, called ‘state of grace’. The condition of being in God’s favor or one of the elect.”
When I see this powerful definition of grace, my heart stirs and I just begin to automatically see grace in places where I might normally overlook it. The lyrics to the old hymn, “Come Thou Fount Of Every Blessing,” says: “tune my heart to sing thy grace.” This definition does that for me. It tunes my heart to sing, my eyes to see, and my mind to understand just how much God’s grace abounds.
Grace is everywhere.
Evidence of God’s unfailing goodness saturates our lives. When I am looking, I see it all around me. I see grace in the middle of my hurt and fear. I also find grace right in the middle of the mundane and boring parts of my life.
Sometimes grace looks like an encouraging call from a friend just when you need a little lifting up. Share on XGrace can be an unexpected kindness from a stranger. It can show up as your favorite praise and worship song when your heart needs a reminder of God’s unending love.
Grace is courage and strength when you’re in the middle of the mess.
Sometimes grace is as deep as feeling peace in the storm or being wrapped in the arms of the Father when you’re lonely and discouraged. However, grace is also a simple as a cup of hot coffee on a cold, dreary morning or a divinely timed hug from a loved one.
So, what does grace look like?
Grace looks different every time I see it.
Grace shows up in a million ways that are both incredibly simple and richly complex.
Grace might not look the same every time I see it, but grace usually looks like goodness that I don’t deserve and kindness that I didn’t earn. Grace always looks like arms stretched wide on a cross in a display of pure love that I can never fully comprehend.
Keep your eyes, your heart, and your mind open and join me in searching out grace in the moments. I’d love to know what grace looks like to you.
Love,
Bobbie
Bobbie Schaeperkoetter is married to her high school sweet heart and is a homeschooling mama of a tween boy and a teen boy. She loves Jesus with her whole heart and is just doing her best to honor him in the craziness of life. She would love to be a friend and encourage you in your Christian walk as you do the same.
You can follow Bobbie’s blog at: Bobbieschae.com
She would love for you to stop by and say hello on social media on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.
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Elizabeth says
“Grace is courage and strength when you’re in the middle of a mess.” I copied these words; I want to remember them when people ask me how I have dealt with so much adversity in my life. I have discovered that we all have challenges, but some are more heartbreaking. Some challenges have no rhyme or reason; some come in the form of anger that is hard to understand; some challenges come in the form of a mess over which you have no power.
Thank you Bobbie. You are an inspiration and a messenger for the Grace I needed today
Katie says
Glad that Bobbie’s words encouraged you today, Elizabeth. Thank you for reading and make God’s grace strengthen you in a special way as you press on. Psalm 46:5
Chanda says
I was reading this, and thinking about how I’ve been having a hard time seeing God’s Grace lately because the season I am in. Then I read the part about unexpected kindness, and as silly as it sounds a coworker gave me a nice pen yesterday. As small as gesture as it was it made me feel special because I’ve felt so unnoticed and unwanted. That really was God letting me know people see me, and I’m not forgotten
Katie says
Hi Chanda- I love that He showed you that you’re not forgotten by Him. He knows your name, and your pain and loves you more than you can imagine!
Gretchen Fleming says
Hi Katie and Bobbie! Love how you use examples of everyday grace that we can be unable to recognize. Looking for those grace moments also remind me of looking for what to be grateful for. Beginning a gratitude list a few years back changed my perspective in a big way. I went from being a recovering perfectionist who focuses easily on what is wrong and needs attention/fixing to focusing on what is right and a blessing. I learned to look for and enjoy all those moments that come and go so quietly each day. Grace moments indeed:) Blessings you two and thanks for this great post!
Katie says
Hi Gretchen! Thank you for stopping over and reading Bobbie’s grace words. I’m right there with you on the recovering perfectionist thing- keeping a gratitude list helps me a lot too. 😉